If
you’re suffering from ennui in the bedroom, it’s time to try a simple trick
between the sheets – get a textured condom.
Have you noted a rather distressing fact about your bedroom
antics lately? The two of you used to have earth-shattering sex; now it has
become a matter of course that you don’t much look forward to. You wonder where
the fire that stoked your passion has gone, and you miss it intensely.
If the
fireworks are missing in the bedroom…
Let’s face it – sex can become monotonous after a while.
It’s not like you love your partner any less or find them less attractive. It’s
just that you’re probably doing the exact same thing every time the two of you
get between the sheets, so you know what to anticipate. When you already know
what’s coming, you’re less likely to enjoy the experience. The same applies to
your partner.
Many couples experiment in the bedroom to keep the spark
alive. You can too, but start small. Instead of going for a new position, why
not add a fun, spicy element to the act itself? You can do this just by trying
a dotted condom instead of your usual plain one. A dotted or ribbed
condom is classified as a ‘textured’ condom that creates new sensations and
added pleasure for both partners. It will help you experience new feelings and
sensations through added friction, while he will respond faster to you if you
show more excitement in the lovemaking. Some textured condoms are designed to
give pleasure to both partners simultaneously.
How
textured condoms work
The textured condom may either be ribbed or dotted. A ribbed
condom has special ridges placed at strategic points outside the condom. They
create new and pleasant sensations inside the vaginal canal upon thrusting,
thus bringing a different climax to the woman. The feeling is very different
from a standard issue condom which does not feel any different from the sensation
of a penis. In contrast, a ribbed condom gives a very different sensation and
ups the ante on sexual tension and climax.
Meanwhile, a dotted condom has raised dots on the
outside of the condom to provide extra stimulation during sex. It is helpful
for women who do not normally climax via peno-vaginal sex. The dotted condom
is primarily intended to give added pleasure to the woman, and to evoke a
deeper response from the man when the woman enjoys the sensations.
A little
tweaking goes a long way
A ribbed or dotted condom can go a long way in
ensuring that your sex life is back on track where it used to be. But it is not
a magic trick that will work forever – you will still need to be emotionally
and physically invested in the relationship to keep the spark alive and
burning. You can try new positions and other types of condoms as well, to keep
the fire from flagging again.
