An intimate massage – Helping her break free

Many women struggle with arousal or lubrication during sex. An intimate massage helps them break free of their inhibitions and enjoy great sex.

Sex is a joy for most people – we say most, because some people do not, or cannot, enjoy it all. For men, it may be about performance anxiety or an underlying medical issue such as prostate cancer or diabetes. For women, it might be about vaginal dryness despite arousal, and subsequent pain during intercourse.

While medication can help you overcome these problems, sometimes the solution is closer to home. Women who have a desire for sex but who are afraid of penetrative intercourse may benefit from a sensual massage. It helps them break free of their inhibitions and get into the mood. And if all else fails, they can get some lube on and get right down to it.

What is a sensual massage?

Also known as an intimate massage, it is a massage that awakens the body’s senses by touching and massaging the erogenous zones. Apart from this, it also seeks to relax the person completely by stroking and rubbing, so that one may be in the mood for rest and great sex. It is a great stress reliever that not only removes pain and tension from the body, while also preparing the body and mind for sex.

However, sensual massages are not aimed only at having sex at the end. It can also help women relax, have a better body image and even work out some past issues about sex that may hold them back from enjoying intercourse.

How can it help a woman?

First off, if the woman suffers from vaginal dryness despite lots of foreplay, she can benefit from her partner caressing her vaginal lips with lube till she starts quivering with pleasure. At this point, he can enter inside her and she can take advantage of the wetness down there to really enjoy the experience.

Second, some women have body image issues. They may feel that they are physically unattractive and that their partners may not like to see their naked bodies. In this case, the partner can reassure the woman by complimenting the feel of her skin, her curves and how exciting her bodies are, while giving her a sensual massage.

Third, it helps the woman trust a man much more. This is important for women who have had bad relationships in the past, or who harbour suspicions that men are only interested in women for sex. Both partners are naked during the sensual massage, and the giver is more invested in it than the receiver. Hence, the woman becomes more relaxed when she sees that her male partner is more interested in pleasuring her than himself.